How did I miss this ?
In 1944 the movie “Gaslight”, a mystery-thriller starring Charles Boyer and Ingrid Bergman was a huge success. I was just eleven at the time but I do remember being fascinated and scared by it and from that time on I would always go to see any movie that featured Charles Boyer.
Although he was a retiring person off-screen, Boyer left female movie-goers swooning and, somewhat like Sean Connery today he seemed to get even more attractive with age. I thought I knew a lot about his life but it was a complete surprise to me this week when I came across an article referring to prominent actors and actresses who had committed suicide and he was among them. How did I miss this?
Then I saw that he died in 1978 and that was the year that we moved to North Carolina. So that explained how I missed hearing about his death but I was still amazed that it was a suicide. I knew that he had wed the British actress Pat Paterson in 1934 and that it was a happy and successful marriage. What I didn’t know was that he retired in the mid 70’s to care for his wife who was diagnosed with cancer. She died in 1978 and just two days later the grief-stricken actor took his own life.
I don’t know exactly why this affected me so much now. I guess it took me back to a simpler time when a girl on the brink of becoming a young lady could be totally enthralled with an older man with a throaty French accent …and then to find out that his actual life ended in tragedy “just like in the movies”. So sad…
A “Feel Good” news story … for a change.
Look at this guy … doesn’t he look like the young hitchhiker that Brad Pitt played in “Thelma and Louise”? Well, he’s certainly not a loser like that young man was!!
This is Dan Price, CEO of Gravity Payments in Seattle, Washington. He and his brother Lucas founded the business in 2004 “providing merchant processing services”. I have no idea what that actually means but I love the fact that, as CEO, Dan made a bold decision that will affect the well being of his 120-person staff.
He was disturbed by the fact that his executive salary was exorbitant compared to that of his employees and he decided to do something about it. "I want to be a part of the solution to inequality in this country, and so if corporate America also wants to be a part of that solution, that would make me really happy," Price said.
His idea became reality this past week when he made the amazing announcement to his employees that he planned, over the next three years, to raise each and every one of their salaries to a minimum of $70,000.
I doubt very much if corporate America will follow his lead but I hope it makes those companies quibbling over a $15 per hour minimum wage think twice !
Update on the roof …
“Ixnay on the goofy self portrait Brian … that roof won’t paint itself !!”
“Who cares? I’m having a ball up here.”
We had hoped to have my roof just about done by now but the erratic NC weather has proved to be less than cooperative. Lots of rain and high winds have been the norm. We decided to make it a full house make-over since it’s been about 15 years since it was painted and it looks it.
You can see what a job it will be !
I will be thrilled when I can post a picture of the finished project !!! Patience in not my strong point
Permit me to brag ….
This is the house that my oldest son, Mark, designed last year and I’m so proud to say that it won the 2015 House of the Year award by the Moore County Home Builders Association. The write-up that accompanied the picture says it much better than I could …
"The McCrann residence was designed by Mark Dean of Imark Design …The building site's beautiful views of Lake Dornach greatly influenced the overall design approach. The property is shaped at a triangle with the small end at the driveway side which provided the design's greatest challenge as the garage had to be placed in front of the house. The solution entailed detaching the garage from the house and treating it as a separate support building that visually screens the home's entrance. Guests are invited to the Entry Terrace by walking around the Garage toward the sound of a water fountain and then arriving under the flat terrace roof at the large tumbled marble stairs that flow from the interior of the house. Upon entering the house the marble surface of the entry walkway and stairs is continued down the barrel vaulted Hall that connects the entry terrace with the rear lakeside terrace and the views of Lake Dornoch.”
Here are a few other views ….
I’m proud of all three children and my son-in-law but this is Mark’s time to shine !!
Brian … the Roof Guy !
Meet my son-in-law Brian … understandably proud of the roof repairs that he made to his and my daugher's barn in New York State. Here you see it in another perspective:
…and why am I showing this to you? Because now Brian is on MY rooftop and it is very exciting. I have a little house that was built in 1902 and it has a very sturdy tin roof but it does need to be painted and I’ve been dreading that. My two boys, Mark and Matt, are excellent workers too but this is about as high as they like to go:
… and I can’t blame them. I am leery of heights too ! So, we are all happy that Brian has taken on the job. Here he is at the start of the project…
I will be sure to highlight the results in an upcoming post.
“We are not a glum lot…”
One of the things that often amazes a newcomer to the halls of Alcoholics Anonymous is the amount of laughter that is present. It is definitely true...we are not a glum lot.
We know we are fighting a deadly disease...one that will kill us if we are not diligent. However, laughter is our saving grace. It allows us to laugh at ourselves, to face our fears and our misdeeds and to put our lives and our past into perspective. A type of “gallows humor” I guess. Anyway, I thought that you might enjoy some of the funny quips and jokes that abound in AA.
Here’s a sampling:
* I would rather go through life sober, believing I am an alcoholic, than go through life drunk…trying to convince myself that I am not.
* The bluebird of happiness is not another swallow.”
* Overheard at a funeral service: “Poor boy, he tried everything to stop drinking but he never could.” “Did he try AA?” “Oh, my, no…he never got that bad.”
* The 12 Steps are like 12 wrenches…they will fit any nut who walks through the door.
* If you’re wrapped up in self you make a very small package.
* The discussion topic was “half measures avail us nothing” and one member was listing all the reservations he had about the AA program and sobriety. An old-timer piped up and said, “with that many reservations you are bound to take flight. soon”
* A warning to newcomers in AA: “If you’re looking for a relationship in AA odds are good you’ll find one. But beware…it often follows that the goods will be odd.”
* An alcoholic is an individual who takes the most simple program and works on it until he has eventually reduced it to its most complicated form.
…is defined as a new word or a new use for an old word.
Yearly the Washington Post has a neologism contest in which readers submit their alternatives for common words. These are a few of this year’s winning submissions:
* Coffee (n.), the person upon whom one coughs.
* Flabbergasted (adj.), appalled over how much weight you have gained.
* Willy-nilly (adj.), impotent.
* Flatulence (n.) emergency vehicle that picks you up after you are run over by a
* Balderdash (n.), a rapidly receding hairline.
* Testicle (n.), a humorous question on an exam.
* Pokemon (n), a Rastafarian proctologist.
* Frisbeetarianism (n.), (back by popular demand): The belief that, when you
die, your soul flies up onto the roof and gets stuck there.
Readers were also asked to take any word from the dictionary, alter it by adding, subtracting, or changing one letter, and supply a new definition. Winners are:
* Cashtration (n.): The act of buying a house, which renders the subject
financially impotent for an indefinite period.
* Giraffiti (n): Vandalism spray-painted very, very high.
* Sarchasm (n): The gulf between the author of sarcastic wit and the person who
doesn't get it.
* Hipatitis (n): Terminal coolness.
* Osteopornosis (n): A degenerate disease. (This one got extra credit.)
* Glibido (v): All talk and no action.
And the pick of the literature:
* . Ignoranus (n): A person who's both stupid and an asshole.